The past couple days i have realized something. Marriage is a state of Vulnerability. It last 24/7 365 days and whether we like to admit it or not, (I know for SURE i don't) its good for us. It gives us the power to hurt each other beyond reprimand, but also the capability to heal all wounds and to love like nothing before. We learn to deal with the power marriage brings and to learn how to use it for empowerment and uplifting rather then put-downs and negativity.
I think God makes marriage so different then just dating to show us, how he loves. He loves BIG, nothing stopping him or making his love waver. its agape.
My marriage hasn't been the easiest, but threw all the sabotage, hurt, tears and arguments. I have learned one thing time and again. Marriage and Love are a lot like Snowflakes. No two are the same, and they are constantly changing. Marriage changes when you move in together, when you have a baby, the first time you both decide where to live or how to decorate a room. Love is very similar except when you are faced with an argument or something that you think will be the end all, love conquers it. True love is when you are so hurt by the other person, but you still want them to hold you and mend your broken heart. I think god gives us snowflakes to remind us that never are two things exactly alike and to know that even in the differences there's true beauty.
Thats all for now. stay tuned
